I still remember one little comment I received on a speaker evaluation.
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âAll show⊠no go.âÂ
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That one negative comment seemed to be permanently lodged in my brainâlike an annoying popcorn kernel after movie night.Â
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Although it was a completely useless comment (without more details or specific information, I canât really know what he was intending to say), I couldnât forget it.Â
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Even nowâmore than 10 years laterâthose four words will still sneak back up to the forefront of my mind. Sometimes as Iâm crafting a new bit for my speech, I worry itâs too over the top. That strangerâs voice echoes in my mind, and I canât help but ask myself, âWhat if I am all show and no go?âÂ
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To be frank, it hurt my confidence. And Iâve had to learn to block this idea and the negative thinking that stemmed from it.Â
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All because of four little words written on a speaker evaluation sheet.Â
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The Psychology of Session RatingsÂ
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You probably remember a negative comment or two from your own session ratings. I wouldnât be surprised if you too can recall word for word a particularly hurtful comment.Â
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Psychologically, this happens a lot. Even when the majority of the feedback you receive is positive, the negative comments are the ones your mind latches onto. Why? Because negative feedback triggers critical thinking.Â
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Subconsciously, you categorize it as a threatâwhich means it reaches the deepest primal area of your brain and awakens your âfight or flightâ response.Â
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But before you decide to completely renovate your speech because of a specific comment from an audience member, consider these three truths about speaker ratings and session evaluations.Â
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#1 The percentage of participants who fill out surveys is (very) small.Â
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Almost always, the comments you receive only represent a small fraction of your entire audience.
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Not too long ago, I spoke at an event with around 3,000 attendees and received 365 evaluations. Thatâs only about 10 percent of the audience who bothered to fill out the info.Â
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And thatâs actually pretty common. For conferences and corporate events, a good post-event survey response rate is generally between 10 and 20 percent, depending on the size of the event.Â
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Most people are tired after a long conference day or simply donât think filling out a survey is worth their time. Thatâs why so many events and conferences incentivize event-goers; if thereâs a gift card on the line, more people will participate.Â
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So, when you receive feedback (whether positive or negative) from the session ratings, take it with a grain of salt. Itâs likely not truly representative of what the audience thinks.Â
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#2 There are three types of feedback (and only two are useful). Â
The real value in speaker evaluations comes from the comments people write in. And those usually come in three forms: the good, the bad, and the ugly.Â
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The good are the kind comments you receive. These usually make up the majority of the comments you get. Theyâre the âAmazing,â âLoved it,â âBest of the day,â and âEntertaining, helpful, and insightfulâ feedback we speakers love to read.Â
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And who wouldnât? These compliments boost your confidence and give you a sense youâre delivering a good speech.Â
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The bad are the constructive comments. These usually only make up less than two percent of the total comments. Although you might perceive them as negative at first, these comments can provide constructive feedback.Â
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For example, I got a comment that said: âToo many âcorporateâ examples cited⊠Give us more down-to-earth doables & possibilities.âÂ
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While these types of comments could still sting a little bit, this type of feedback could be helpful. If you notice similar comments over a few different events, you might want to analyze whatâs going on and tweak your speech.Â
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The good comments and the bad comments are both useful when analyzing what works and what might need adjustments in your speech.Â
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Then comes the ugly. This last type of feedback is uselessâthese comments are not kind and certainly not constructive either. They donât provide useful information and itâs best to ignore them and try to forget about them. (Yep, that âall show⊠no goâ comment falls into this third category.)Â